My parents weren’t the fondest of him, due to his constant video game life. Although many would disagree. How do you just stop? They way us down and sometimes do not allow us to move on in our lives with forgiveness and mercy. October 16 was my birthday and last night things reached a head with me and my companion and he says that I am the reason another women was in the picture because I was bitter and couldn’t see what I had done to get things to this point. Wow this is Great! Evil & hurt & pain are caused by human beings – all over the world, to other human beings – every day. I have had more than my fair share of poisonous relationships. At least I could help them get on their feet. My emotional state is tested every day of my life because I continue to be controlled by my ex. I have had every word I ever spoke used against me. I am trusting Gods Word to be true and pray for a tender heart…one that forgives and loves. She reported the matter to Mr. Tim when he got to the office and he scolded me. Some people are not ready to go where God is taking you. I loved her and my grandbaby! I am relearning what you have said. I am a born again Christian and I dearly love the Lord… Unfortunately, I not only get angry when irritated, I have outbursts and feel as though I will explode! Sometimes He is with us through Godly friends. May God bless you. So yes it is possible, These articles are a great way for us to pray for each other without ceasing as the word of God says and see him perfect everything that concerns us. Our mum used to be angry and say terrible things…. I’m praying God can change the heart. When we are angry about the sin going on in the world or angry at the way others are being treated, that is an example of biblical anger. Don’t let evil conquer you, but conquer evil by doing good. But also see a health professional. But, as time went on I began to understand why our relationship ended. god Bless you Or watch me on YouTube. the other day he said he couldn’t take it any more and said he couldnt be in a relatiomship now coz he is busy. My question is I really don’t want to spend any time quilting with her but I want to stay intouch because I really care about her we have been friends for so long..is it ok not to be friends with some one and not want to be around them. Anger and resentment toward ourselves and others can destroy our health and the peace of those around us. -Luke 6:37. -Colossians 3:8, 12-13. My friend and I fell out and I was very hurt by the situation, because she was my bestfriend, kind of like a sister to me. I honestly just did a Google search for verses for those feeling betrayed….and this amazing article came up. It’s not her fault, and it’s not yours. I called the school counselor to check on them and haven’t been at ease all day. Right now I live every day, walking on eggshells and hoping I don’t make a wrong move. I began praying and asking God to show me where to start. Now they dont care that I’m about to lose my place. Don’t let your feelings control you. What is the real problem here? May peace and grace be release to each and everyone of you in Jesus name. God completely softened my heart again to my wife and changed our marriage. From now on, I’ll let her go and forgive as well. Blind rage. I feel I have been taken advantage of and done wrong. I pray and have cried countless nights when everyones is asleep only to find myself depressed. Pray for HER. Am doing okay so far and I hope God continues to guide me. I don’t want to snap on my enemies. The next day when I got to the office she sent me a message to say she has reported me to my Guardian/Mother and that she has told her that she believes its spiritual and that she should look for help to pray for me about it. I tried to lock the door but she kept on saying I should leave her alone and she push me and left the bathroom. Hello I came across your blog now I am really having a problem to let go of anger for something that has been happening to me for years. But you gotta focus on GOD so HE can do great things with you.. Pray for them and healing….all things in life can be undone. She’s near the point where my help isn’t going to be enough anymore, yet all my family seems to want is Mom in a home and me far away from them (Mom and I live together and if she goes away to a home, I’ll be outdoors, I fear, as my kin have already decided that they do not want my saved lifestyle interfering/clashing with their unsaved lifestyle). That only leads to trouble!Â – Psalm 37:8. How, we don’t know. My daughter wants to learn not be sent to a library to do homework. I don’t show my anger to jer, but at home , I cry, and wonder what it is I’m doing wrong! It is very serious. I am trying to forgive my daughter but she shows no compassion towards me. A friend and I had a falling out a long while back.. so we can teach them the way to the Lord Jesus so that it can go well with us. I’m sorry that you’re hurting. 7 Bible Verses about Resentment ... “But the godless in heart lay up anger; They do not cry for help when He binds them. So you’re there. So this year is no different, except I found the perfect camper, perfect price everything about it I totally loved, only $4000…I told him how much I wanted it, but again he was put off, he never spends any money on anything, even me… so here’s the dilemma. Again God has shown me His faithfulness in leading me to exactly what I needed. I am thankful because it taught me, “ how to apply.” Through the wisdomyou’ve applied from the word,it made me want to obey its precepts. I struggle with anger and bitterness in a similar way as you Do. To Bryce, Forgive them anyway. My husband is a wonderful man that loves me and our children very much but he defends his mom and sister always. I think it’s helpful to look at that more vulnerable emotion and to deal with that, but you can come back to that later. (and in my case those who don’t). Resentment is the kid brother to anger, resentment will make you as an individual to build up a level of hatred towards another person. It broke me, I kept my pose the whole evening, but I’ve been struggling emotionally ever since. He loves both of you the same. (3 a) In Ephesians 4:31 to Ephesians 5:2, he deals with malignity, as utterly unworthy of the love of God manifested to us in Jesus Christ. May God go before us! Find some time to be alone and sit at His feet and say all the things you need to. I want myself keep away from her anymore so that I can have a peace of mind, but the most difficult is that we will be together until April next year. Few days to my birthday I tried joking with her, she smiled a bit but still kept her straight look. Is anger a sin? May God bless you & show you His love for you. Why does GOD need our love, I’ve praised GOD for year after year only to get sh** no. You want people to be able to trust you. Brothers and sisters in Christ are to build each other up in God’s Word, NOT tear each other down! Pretty much anyone that annoys me. Thank you. He had many female friends that he would talk to for at least 2 years ( supposedly no affairs) and in August of 2014 found out he actually had an affair with his childhood’s friends ex wife… I tried to work on my problems that he had with me… But he never choose to work on himself. I looked this up and I want to let you know that I enjoyed reading all of it . Holding onto that anger will only make you bitter. Victoria Forgiveness is the stumbling block that leads to bitterness and resentment. We are required to forgive as the Father has forgiven us. I have dealt with corruption in the court system and dirty attorneys. Now all three of our children are adults. He understands anger. For the entire law is fulfilled in keeping this one command: “Love your neighbor as yourself.” – Galatians 5:14. Thank you, I will be sharing this with my daughter who struggles with anger. God willdo that. Thank you Tara for your words of wisdom. Born into a bad family that didn’t show any love. They cursed at us made fun of me and my son because we were both adopted. Please help me all I want is to do what is right by God.And His will for my life. After I read your review, I searched and found a wonderful review by Dr. Joyce Meyers : Dealing with Anger…..God’s Way and then…..a wonderful video by Anger Management, God’s Way – Summer on the Mount #3 Jonathan Pokluda | June 23, 2015. Most of the time anger is a sin, but not all the time. However, thanks be to GOD!!! May we find true peace in forgiving those who hate us and hurt us as God have forgiven us. I was on complete auto pilot. Vengeance is left to God Himself but you are entitled to rebuke. But why do I still feel hurt? But it’s the third night here and we are already fighting like we used to. Thank you for this article. I look forward to being so much happier once I read these scriptures and start to crawl out of this hole I’ve been in! Do not be eager in your heart to be angry, For anger resides in the bosom of fools. My friend don’t give me importance a lot of times. I got up and waked away. I too am finding it difficult to “forgive an forget” … as I want to lash out … but the Holy Spirit keeps SHOUTING at me – HARBOR NO ILL WILL. Resentment, anger, bitterness and unforgiveness are a very heavy burden to carry around with us in our lives. Whenever he doesn’t pick my calls or reply my texts, I get really angry and I only feel better when I rain insults on him. At the funeral her daughter’s pastor insulted us for not taking care of her, while her daughter to care of her she took all the praise. When God shows you who people really are and once he closes that door its up to you. THE REASON PEOPLE MAKE FUN OF OTHER PEOPLE IS THEY ARE THE ONES WHO ARE HURTIN AND THEY WANT TO SHARE THE PAIN. The last thing the devil wants is for you and your friend to pray a prayer in agreement. For more encouragement please visit my website at jesussavesalltheworld.webs.com I have a good friend who cares so much for me but I a always rude harsh, condemning and judging him, everything that he tried to do is never enough, I am never satisfied but I know deep I my heart that he is the best thing hat ever happen to me. Anger is not my portion and I am asking God to pull it out from the roots!! I am angry and hurt by someone I would give my own life for and it is so hard. No-one can really understand what you’ve been through unless they’ve experienced it themselves. amzn_assoc_ad_mode = "manual"; It’s taken me a long time to trust God and sometimes I feel He’s the only one I can really trust. I have no finances and no lawyer left. 31 Bible Verses about Resentment, Against People ... Let all bitterness and wrath and anger and clamor and slander be put away from you, along with all malice. Amen. i will lose the voucher if i dont find a place which makes no sense —– if i dont find a place , then what ? Pure evil. God sees our imperfections and loves us anyway. Any suggestions on how to help my aunty forgive him and release her anger and hurt?? I think it’s mainly from disappointment in myself. When people mistreat us and there’s nothing we can do about it, we get mad. Not at all. After a really bad falling out with my ex, father of my children, I placed myself and my two children in a bad situation. She has taken our 3 daughters zero weeks. It does! I am a work in progress and I am far from complete. What if we can’t just get over it? I’ve been reading the word consistently for about two months now. She is suffering in an unbearably unjust situation, and she is angry and resentful at the person causing it. I thank God for my answer and thank God for the revelation. So, just wanted to thank you ever so much for sharing the above with us all. everyone pointed me as a bad friend when he is just try to help me to let go of the past, to heal me,he prays for me to let go. I was in a relationship that lasted over 4 years but later the guy left me and married another person even when he had already proposed to me , in fact during that period I felt like killing him or wished that something bad should happen to him but later I just manage to forget about him and said to myself he is not my husband and I moved on. The Divorce is right around the corner and I don’t like the things I hear because of the hate, that I am somehow emotional or unable to cope. When the spirit of anger get hold of person, it can make you to curse people who are important in your life. I can now stop focusing on my feelings of being wronged and channel that energy into something positive that will cause me to move forward. I came by this article while searching for verses to help me overcome anger and letting go. Thank you. They cursed at us made fun of me and my son because we were both adopted. This world teaches every thing opposite then what God teaches. I was just crying over a sink of dishes and left them there, and i googled ‘ways to overcome anger after being hurt”. Giving someone the right to be wrong helps me destroy my unfair expectations of them. (broken up as of late April 2016) Yes, I still think of him… I still love him… but I HIGHLY doubt we would ever get back together again…. Everything that say here it really helps me because I always angry I feel like it every body fault but read his I need to get on my knee and pray to god because he the only one that can help I love you god, This is helping me see this on here. I absolutely relates what you’ve been through, because that is certainly happening to me right now. I really needed this. I believe that every friendship that has ended does not have to be rekindled. Right now, YOU need to be changed, and the person who’s hurt you needs to be changed. No matter how many times you failed in your life I want you to know this: I was opposed to this choice and said so and communication came to an abrupt halt. My daughter wrote the letter now the teacher wont let her back in class wants a new letter because it wasnt good enough she said. It lasted 4 months. I saw him at a function this weekend. I have been sick with Fibromyalgia for years and had been close to going on disability. I feel like a lost child who wants to tantrum. I know we will work it out because we have been good friends for 33 years, but for tonight, I need to pray for peace, calmness and perspective. I’m sure you may have seen it or you can find it if you Google it. And, while reading some of the comments, my heart went out to you. Thank you. Month after month turned into year after year. They treat me hateful and make fun of me. Pray it every day, every hour, every minute if you have to. Mother Teresa is known for what’s posted below; 1. I am going through a divorce too.. OMG I am a man who is utterly filled with hate and anger towards my wife who is exactly like your husband. God bless you all and thanks for your obedience in writing this article. Anyway she moved back to her son and finally to her daughter but she was always sick. Ephesians 4:1-32 ESV / 57 helpful votes Helpful Not Helpful. – James 1:5. Your words really made me feel understood and you don’t even know me! He never had and always begged me and like a dummy because I was in love I gave it to him. -Luke 6:31. You see, Jesus didn’t just die for you, my righteous friend. I thanked G-d for people like you who’s really helping people like me on dealing angry and resentment. I question if it is my pride getting in the way because for so long my friend shared everything with me and now others have taken my place. -Psalm 4:4. My daughter is having problems with a female teacher at school. And it’s also hard to get past the anger and resentment when something goes unresolved. It was exactly what I needed to read. I want my daughter to see me accomplished and happy again and not this sad confused person. it hurt my emotions coz I couldnt let go when I loved greatly. The reader who wrote to me has endured her situation for five months. -Luke 6:35. Thank you for posting these thoughts and scripture passages. And âdonât sin by letting anger control you.â Donât let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a foothold to the devil. ..where GOD LIVES. This is my downfall when I keep expecting my husband and child to become respectful in my eyes its an impossibility. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. And just said see yoy next week i am alone alot ans read the word each day lam. In addition, we can’t change people, Only God can. Truly words of wisdom. It makes me feel like im empty inside. I know I’m forgive and that God restores. Hes been the only person who has ever been there for me first and only friend, i feel so alone and worthless. I forgive them anyway , but I need you to pray for me because I’ve been through pure hell for the past 4 years , because of lies , betrayal, hate , and much more . Enlist the help of someone who can stop it. You pray. I helped them out to get on their feet, but now they act like I’m trash.yes I need that money to move by December 1st and they both dont care if I lose my housing after I helped them so much. After reading your I felt led by the Holy spirit to write down word by word to forgive each and every member of my family. I just was very angry and although I’d like to say something like, ” gosh, this is a terrible thing that just happened” because I blew up, I cannot seem to imagine it helping, what would Jesus do? So I walked up her and said ” Susan please let’s stop this, let’s talk, you have to talk to me and you have to smile and be happy” . I will pray for you! What I did realize was that it all has to start and end with me. I am so worried and scared of the future. I don’t bother no one ,but my enemies continue getting in my personal business . What were you referring to? Anger and resentment create more vulnerability in the long run as they drive us to violate our deeper values. Proverbs 29:11 The Bible tells us that forgiveness can help with our anger. I have a wonderful Christian husband and God has blessed us so. God Loves you and He proved His Love towards you by giving His only Begotten Son Jesus Christ for punishment, crucifixion, and death, the Good News is that Christ has Risen on the 3rd day after He was buried. Thank you for writing this. Forgive others, and you will be forgiven. Thank you very much for this post, even a couple years after it was written God is still using you and your words to reach those who are hurting and in search of healing. May God show his Mercy and Grace to us all! All scriptures are God-breathed, right? It is a very human emotion, envy. But, on the other hand, God has led me to my job and in so many other ways. I just thought I would share! 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